boston

Boston really shook me.  I don’t know why it did more so than other tragedies and things that we’ve faced.  I think I reached my tipping point… just fed up… angry… sad.. scared… reminded me of post 9/11 days, wandering NYC and trying to pretend things were normal and we were not scared but you flinch at any thing that looks somewhat weird, sounds strange… but you try to move on nonetheless.

Even though I haven’t lived extensively in Boston, it still feels like home.  I mean, NJ is home… let me not mistake anyone.  I’m a proud NJ’sian… but I was born in Boston. I was born in the hospital that many patients were taken to – Brigham and Women’s.  No big deal but it gave a small sense of connection.  Watertown where the shootout was… my best friend lives really close to there.  I’ve wandered those streets.  Another friend’s fiancé was injured in the blasts – surprised to see him on CNN one night being interviewed by Piers Morgan. Seeing friends on CNN is most likely never a good thing. The marathon – I mean, I know we should always be vigilant, but ya know what?  I don’t want to have to think or worry about things like this happening at races…  look when I step on a plane or am in certain situations, of course the thought crosses my mind that something could happen… I need to be vigilant.. or just pray hard.. but for races?  It’s like the opportunity to get away and focus on that finish line… not wonder what will happen as I run to the finish line.  I guess it’s a reminder that our lives are out of our control.

Anyhow, Boston just really rocked me.  I tried to go on, and I did on the outside, but inside I was struggling… spiritually I was just tired. Praying was hard.  Reading the Bible was hard.  Crying out to God was hard.  I needed someone to remind me of the Gospel, but I didn’t know how to ask. I wanted to ask, but I didn’t want to ask.

“never believe that a few caring people can’t change the world, for indeed, that’s all who ever have”

quoted by margaret mead

new Guatemalan friends

i met many people in guatemala, and many had an impact on me... i'll share two of them with you here.

this woman was helping with the clean up after we served lunches to the children.  i don't know why but I felt the tugging to go and talk to her... despite the fact that I know 0 spanish... and... she spoke no english!  so that made for an interesting attempt at speaking with each other... nonetheless sometimes all it takes is just being present and giving people dignity by making eye contact and touching their shoulder or giving that hug.  a staff member saw me and was wondering what i was doing... they knew i knew no spanish and they probably saw me flailing my arms as i tried to explain things using whatever hand motions and facial expressions i could pull.  anyhow at the end of the animated "conversation", she said, translated through the staff member... "thank you for wanting to talk to me even though I am poor…"  wow... it made me so sad to think that she would have expected anything else from me... of course...why would i NOT want to talk to you... who cares if you're poor or rich... but isn't that the reality?  oftentimes we are so good at blocking people out of our view and moving forward with our oh so busy lives... God open our eyes to what you see...

then this little girl and her grandma... we vistied her grandma's 'home'..  what a testimony she had... won't share it in detail now, but she makes bags (out of plastic bags!) and jewelry and sells them.  i loved this woman's faith and perseverance to move forward after a devastating accident that physically hurt her and depressed her. what little she had was now gone.  but through this organization, she was able to get back on her feet... literally... and is now growing her business... her daguther is helping and her precious granddaughter helps care for her grandma.  i don't know why but i really felt a specail connection with this little girl... once again another example of how God can speak without words... she made me a little bracelet... so i made her one in exchange.  beautiful family.

a competition for survival - vultures vs. dogs vs. rats vs. humans

I was in Guatemala with one of our partner organizations who are working to love, care, and serve individuals and families who live and work in and around the garbage dump.  an amazing ministry for sure... i have much more to write about the ministry but that will have to wait another time.  These pictures give a sense for the community they are working in... a place where vultures, dogs, rats, humans, and who knows whatever else is hiding in there... compete… fighting for trash.  Pray for these people and their families... it's tough and dangerous work. Pray for the ministry working so hard every day to care for and love and serve these people... people they call Treasures... because they are God's Treasures... 

 

opening your eyes... with great prudence.

back to work today... i.e. back to coffee shops and cafes and virtual offices... trains... buses... all the fun... utah was great.. 5 days straight of skiing and snowboarding somehow.  considering i was feeling the soreness on day 1, how i made it to day 5 could only be God's grace... He knows how much i love the mountains... the snow... the speed... the adventure... the challenge... and perhaps the pain and suffering... the numb feet in tight ski boots... the burning in the legs... sometimes i wonder why i subject myself to such suffering but i guess the optimistic side focuses on the adventure and fun... the exhiliration... the beauty of creation... ya know... all that good stuff..

was in sbux this afternoon/evening and a woman walks in, sits down next to me... what started as a convo about her pc laptop and my mac turned into a relationship of vulnerability and tears. i don't even know what caused me to talk or ask or what... but I guess sometimes when we put aside our personal agendas and busyness of life and let God lead, He opens the doors for conversation and for His compassion to pour out.  Long story short, this woman's boyfriend had suddenly passed away and well... it's been hard...  of course.  She kept apologizing but really, why should she apologize?  Thankful that God opened my eyes, ears, and heart to just listen and be there for her.  We are His hands and feet, to those we know and those we don't know... to those in India and China and around the world.. but also right here at home.  So many hurting.. so many... we need to ask God to open our eyes and ears and see the hurt.. and be His presence in our broken world.

Funny... well perhaps not funny... the woman sitting on the other side of me was speaking in tagalog to what sounded like her family in the philippines... my tagolog is quite limited but i think the gist was that she was catching up with her mom and dad and grand mom over the phone, and really missing being there with them.  on both sides of me... tears... people sad and hurting for different reasons... people who might need the touch of JC. in my mind i was thinking... 'ok God... so... should i now turn to this filipino woman and start up a convo?  shoudl we have a group cry-out?  a group of strangers sharing and crying and counseling each other... right here... in sbux... right now... really???"

i did not get to speak to the filipino woman... but a third person did enter the scene later.  i won't go into details but just really reminded that especially as a woman... you really need to be careful and act with prudence. dang man what's wrong with some men out there?!?!  makes me so angry.. there are times to be vulnerable.. but always must be done with caution and much wisdom.